Top 10 Love Mistakes Made By Men
When it comes to relationships, men are pretty much dumb. No offense gentlemen, but this is a true fact, that you do acknowledge quite often in your life. Why? Well, a man does not have that deep intuitional knowledge like a woman, he’s not emotionally stable like a woman, he’s not into multi-tasking and thinking about a hundred things at a time like a woman.
A man simply knows 2+2 = 4, a woman thinks 2(x) + 2(x) = ?. Which is why women expect tremendously from men, and poor men don’t even have a clue of what is it that is harming their relationship. So, here’s some basic mistakes that men usually make, when they are with a woman. Rest assured, these mistakes are unintentional and through gentle reminders, the woman can help her man understand the mistakes and encourage him to be a better person next time!
1). Failing To Be A Prince
2). An Overdose of Romance
There are some men out there who simply go crazy over a woman and become highly romantic, expressing himself too much and is a slave to the woman. This is not going to lead you anywhere, but the dumping section. Women prefer men who are romantic in a surprising and classic way (somewhat like James Bond). If you over do the affection, she is going to take you for granted and give you no value. Keep a woman intrigued, curious and yet knowledgeable of your love for her. Balance here is the key. Don’t be too silent about your feelings, but don’t be too talkative or expressive of it either.
3). Forgetting Habits Of A Gentleman
Remember courtesy and manners in a man are the two main turning points for a woman. She would want you to hold the door for her, pull the chair for her, carry the stuff for her and be a true gentleman. Regardless of whether you’re married to her or simply dating, courtesy call is the best way you can get a woman to respect and cherish you. There are some sweet men in the world, who bring food for their partner during an invitation party, or carry the grocery trolley, asks what the lady wants before ordering food, supports her when walking up the stairs etc. These small gestures may make you the man of her life!
4). Not Being Strong In Your Decisions
Like earlier stated, you have to be strong headed. Saying things to the woman like, “I don’t really know”, “I don’t care”, “It’s up to you”, “Your wish” etc is a major let down. It shows you are indecisive, uninterested in the current event and can never be a support she can count on for tough decisions. Remember as a man, it is your duty to bring about a strong decision, as generally women find it difficult to think on one judgment pattern.
5). Failing To Provide Security
Don’t wait to be married to your love, then spend money on her. It wouldn’t count as much. Instead, show her NOW that you can be the provider, the breadwinner of the family and you are good with it. That is why they say never be in a relationship until you are financially stable (this is a must for men). Help her with bills, or any financial matter. It will increase her sense of security and with that she will give you utmost respect and love. She will also automatically help you out in your time of need.
6). Don’t be A Fakster
Yes, honesty is very much needed in a relationship. If you feel overburdened, overwhelmed or troubled by any problem, do not be afraid to discuss it out with your partner. If you put up a macho image, or fake yourself, you might end up making her think that she is not worth your attention or understanding.
7). Failing To Understand Her Love Language
Sometimes words are not needed. Her eyes, her smile, even her glare should be understood by you. Small, gentle gestures as holding hands, walking down the beach, making food, doing things for each other could lead your relationship to a very beautiful level. However, also make sure that you are not the only one doing everything because this is recipe for disaster.
8). Falling Madly For Someone Who Doesn’t Deserve You
There are some men out there who fall for a woman who’s hot, beautiful and successful. But remember that all that glitters is not gold. Women can sometimes be extremely selfish and could use you for her benefit, if she knows you’re head over heels with her. A very clear judging point is needed from you here. Is she balancing the relation? Is she understanding you? Is she aware of you’re problems and doesn’t brag about herself all the time? Does she respect you? Does she love you for who you are? Think very clearly before you give all your time and care to someone who may not deserve it.
9). Failing To Be Humorous
Women are most of the time reserved and always need a good laugh. Be the funny guy for your lady once in a while. Be witty, comical, funny, make her laugh, make her enjoy time with you. But again don’t over do it, as she also wouldn’t want a joker to be a partner either.
10). Not Getting Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Compromise and adjustment is the key to any relationship. Don’t indulge yourself too much in work, in sports and in computers. Give her quality time, help her out with her hobbies and passions as well and also gently get her to enjoy your adventure, your hobbies or even let her enjoy watching a football match with you.
It’s not an easy list for most guys to follow, but if you genuinely love your woman and if she deserves you in all respects, then you should avoid these mistakes and look to build a life and grow together in happiness and love.
